I'm vanessa

Fighting for my life after everything I built was stolen from me.

truth teller.  

fighter.

woman on a warpath

SEEKER OF JUSTICE.

empath.

I have to wash the clothes that he tells me to wash where he wants me to wash them. I’ve done laundry twice in 5 months, and he hides all of his quarters from me. He turned the water off and hid the hose so I had no access to water. I have to eat […]

Coercive Control, Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Hose Hider

I have gone over 30 days without having access to resources to buy myself food, buy my dogs food, or put gas in my car. I am officially 3 months behind on my rent and I am going to be evicted; he has taken everything from me, and my home will be the last thing. […]

Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

There’s Nothing Left

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Emotional abuse is incredibly difficult to explain – specifically narcissistic abuse. It’s next to impossible, and there is very little awareness about it. Narcissists are calculated, manipulative, and the malignant kind are very dangerous. I was pulled over a few nights ago and was told that my car wasn’t registered; he had put my car […]

Coercive Control, Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse

Abuse

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I’m sorry that your help comes with a price that I am no longer able to pay.  I’m sorry that I am in a depression so severe that I cannot function.I’m sorry that I have not slept in 2 days.I’m sorry I am unable to get out of bed except to use the bathroom.I’m sorry […]

Coercive Control, Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse, Trapped

Apologies

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